Posted by margie24 on June 9, 2005, at 1:02:22
In reply to Re: I need help, please tell me if I am abnormal, posted by caraher on June 6, 2005, at 23:45:57
Asya,
Friends are work. They require maintenance. I think your normal if you've gotten used to your routines and adding an extra element to your daily life seems unappealing. If your truly happy the way you are then don't change. If you feel lonely, then, branch out.
I understand. I feel like a "loser" when I measure my happiness by the number of friends I have. I've always been a one or two close friends kind of person.
Maybe the girls you talk with on the phone fulfill your social needs just fine.
I agree with everyone in that I just think it's only when you are unhappy that you'd want to consider forcing yourself to get out and make connections.Margie
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