Posted by QuietHeart on May 8, 2005, at 9:14:05
Hi all,
I don't post very often but am usually lurking around reading and absorbing from others posts. Thanks in advance for reading my post. I am a single 27 year old professional. I have never really had a boyfriend. I have been intimate with men, but not actually had intercourse. I have dated men, but never gotten to a point of developing serious feelings for any of them and never had any sort of "relationship" that latest more than a month or two. Anyway, I am very, very insecure about being single, and now my closest friends, also perpetually single, are pairing off and I am just feeling really depressed and low. I find I am a very self-sufficient person and don't necessarily NEED someone else, but feel the social pressure to not be single anymore. I live in a suburb pretty hopeless for dating, especially people of my culture (I am Middle Eastern) and I cannot move from this place for at least another year and a half. I am also wondering if moving to a metropolis is the answer. I don't feel the T I had (since terminated) helped me with this because she was coming from the POV that I needed to meet someone and get married. I feel so, so , so horrible about myself, please help!! I need some advice.
poster:QuietHeart
thread:495148
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