Posted by Corafree on April 17, 2005, at 14:26:17
In reply to obsessive attatchment disorder--help!, posted by inthegloaming on April 3, 2005, at 23:29:25
I have a tendency to do this just in cultivating a friendship. I know that I ruin relationships before they are even begun when I 'spill my ups and downs' @ first meeting. My eagerness undermines me and makes the other feel that I NEED a lot of them.
It is hard to go slow, share little bits of yourself slowly, when you feel a strong need for a certain type of companionship. take care, cf
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