Posted by Dinah on March 23, 2005, at 17:31:16
In reply to Thanks; you all said what I wanted..., posted by Colleen D. on March 23, 2005, at 16:16:58
I really do understand. I don't know how I'd make it as a single mom. I need my husband so much.
But it might help to visualize other scenarios as well as the one you fear. If you live in a community property state, for example, and he hurts someone else's kids while driving drunk you could lose everything. And if he hurts your own kids you have lost everything.
But I do empathize with being afraid to be on your own with three young kids. Can you use any leverage to get him into counseling?
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