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The Line Between Love and Hate

Posted by AdaGrace on February 20, 2005, at 15:56:19

The line between love and hate is so very thin these days. Hate is a stones throw away from love. Yet Hate builds and builds until it consumes. Hate takes over Love so easily. Hatred is the basis for every thing I know about Love. Love is the basis for everything I know about Hate. How does one rid themselves of Hate after Love is gone? How does one find a way to cherish the Love even as a memory instead of Hating the Love for ever happening. How in God's name can a woman go on after such an excruciatingly painful experience without simply Hating in order to survive?

I hate him.

I love him.

I miss him.

I don't want to ever hear from him again.

But I do.

Even now.

Even after all the pain he has caused.

Even after all the violently self-destructive things I have done to myself.

Even now that I have begun to heal.

I want him as always.

I feel used.
Abused.
Taken.
Hurt.
Stomped on.

I feel lost.
Tossed away.
Forgotten.

Simply so easily forgotten.

Sundays.

God, how I hate Sundays.

New people come and go.
Old familiar people stay.

Yet still, I miss him. I want him. I love him.

I love him.
I hate him.

I need him.
I feel so very empty without him.

I feel nothing for myself because of him.
I know he did that to me, but yet.....somehow, someway, I still think in my feeble little brain that if I was with him, everything would be alright.

I am such a child.
Such a silly little child.
Without a hardened heart.
Without a fulfilled heart.
Without a nurchered heart.

Without a heart..........


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