Posted by borderliner on January 8, 2005, at 23:59:37
In reply to Bodhisattva, posted by DonE on January 3, 2005, at 23:55:16
Love is important. Religic myths... no thanks.
I also feel its important to be open enough to accept.
I think u are somehow hindered in your ability to accept. Look back over ur past n i bet u'll see the pattern, ask yourself "if i had accepted the situation would it have effected me this much." And u cant say situations havent affected you. You wouldnt have remembered them to begin with.
Agressiveness is a primal instinct for protection. Your past relationships would only have been aggressive due to either party being hindered emotionally and or mentally. You dont experience aggressivenes with love. They dont mix unless its sexual hehe. The way u handle ur relationships sounds inethical. im glad i only have to experience your type in places like this. Helps me realise that we arent all just human. There is more and u know it. Love helps someone acknowledge it.thank you for reminding how important it is that people are more f*cked up than i am.
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