Posted by Tabitha on December 11, 2004, at 17:08:21
In reply to I NEED AN ORGASM!!!!!!!!!!!, posted by Anonymous21 on December 9, 2004, at 2:04:16
You might want to do some research about the anatomy of the clitoris. Did you know the clitoris is about 4 inches long? The visible part is only the tip-- it's the sensory equivalent of the head of the penis. The clitoris extends downward toward the vagina. The vagina itself is more equivalent to a man's scrotum. Expecting a woman to orgasm from intercourse alone is like expecting a man to orgasm from stimulation to the scrotum and base of the penis only. Could many men achieve that? Would they want to? If they couldn't, would they search for psychological reasons for their "problem"? I doubt it.
The standard definition of "sex" is very unfair to women. Think for a moment if "sex" for men consisted of stimulation to the scrotum only, resulting in the majority of them not climaxing at all. Wouldn't that seem wrong? Or how about the other common misconception... that clitoral stimulation is only for "foreplay" to prepare for intercourse. Again, think of the anatomical equivalent for men... what if "sex" for men consisted of stimulation to the penis until they were aroused, then it switched to the scrotum, leaving them unsatisfied? Sounds pretty much backwards, right?
Hetero "sex" needs to be re-defined.
poster:Tabitha
thread:427507
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