Posted by gromit on December 9, 2004, at 21:13:44 [reposted on December 10, 2004, at 22:32:27 | original URL]
In reply to Re: I NEED AN ORGASM!!!!!!!!!!!, posted by Optimist on December 9, 2004, at 9:40:36
> If you can orgasm by yourself, it may just be the method of contact. Many women can only have orgasms from cliteral stimulation. I think the figure is around 70% of women, which is the majority. So if cliteral stimulation is missing during intercourse that may be the problem. Have your partner or yourself aid in that department and it most likely will make a difference.
My wife provides the cliteral stimuation during intercourse, I'm ok with this but some guys may not be. Maybe you can try being on top, you have more control. If nothing else from a logistical standpoint your partner will be able to provide the needed stimulation more easily. I've been with my wife 12 years and only recently she has been able to climax just from intercourse alone.
I would think at least you are going to have some trust issues with men because of being raped. Be honest with your partner and if he isn't willing to at least do what you need in bed maybe you should think carefully before making a lifelong commitment.
Take what I say with a grain of salt, I am an idiot and don't claim to understand women at all.
Rick
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