Posted by Gabbix2 on November 29, 2004, at 17:15:07
In reply to Re: Thank You » Gabbix2, posted by AdaGrace on November 29, 2004, at 7:33:27
> I tend to think that Men and Women think differently about different things.
Yes, I suppose that's true, often for men caring comes in the form of advice also.
It doesn't make me want to hit him.
Well I certainly could have been more tactful I've been really harsh lately, but Rod has asked for feedback on his delivery, so there it was-- in my babblebi*ch way. Ah, no one can accuse me of being two faced :(
But I have come to the realization that I don't have to have everyone agreeing with me all the time. I don't need that much reasurance. I have stopped feeling as if everyone has to give me sympathy for what I am going through.No pity here, just a whole lot of empathy.
I'm going through my own trial and while I can't get into the details, and my pain has blessedly diminished, the anger at the betrayal and lies
was echoed in your letter.That letter was for me. For me to get out what I was feeling and what I wanted to say to him. I see now, and this really feels good, I see now that I don't really care what other people thing about the things I said. I said them for me.
That's what I thought, sort of primal scream therapy. Funny how it has to be public sometimes though isn't it? I've tried sending e-mails to myself and it doesn't work.
> However, it doesn't hurt once in a while for someone to walk by and give me a hand and help me up when I have fallen......
>Well I can sure hold your hand, not sure if I can help you up but I can come down and bang my head on the cement with you and give you a hug :)
> Thanks, AGYour very welcome
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