Posted by sunny10 on November 22, 2004, at 11:56:54
In reply to Re: please..., posted by Susan47 on November 22, 2004, at 11:15:46
relationships have no time constraints. If someone is making you hurry- they are not the right one for you.
Your other question was about chemistry. For some of us who are, for whatever reason, less quick to jump into relationships- our hormones are sort of put on hold. So yes, it is possible for someone to feel chemistry for us though we are not ready to recognize it for ourselves.
Think of these two answers as your safety net. You be the boss of your feelings, now matter how long it takes for you to become clear about what they are, exactly.
In my opinion, you're lucky to feel this way... I used to ignore my feelings and jump right in, only to get hurt later! I've learned to "force" my libido into the holding pattern you've already got, you lucky thing!
Welcome!
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