Posted by sunny10 on November 18, 2004, at 15:03:33
In reply to Better off with 'em or without 'em, posted by bethesdabob on November 18, 2004, at 13:46:12
Yes, that's where I am. Working on my relationship. All relationships are work. That just means both people are growing, which is good!
I understand what you mean about the "skin hunger" and your aims to pacify your self. I think it's wonderful that you know yourself this well.
The only piece of advice I can offer is this.
Your life with your wife had PLENTY of its own baggage. Just because someone elses' baggage is different does not necessarily mean "more" or "worse".You have proven yourself strong enough through all that you had lived through with your wife. It shows me that you are more than capable of opening your heart to another woman- baggage and all.
Go get that very lucky lady, tiger... whoever she turns out to be.
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