Posted by alexandra_k on November 18, 2004, at 2:35:02
In reply to Re: This time it is over (I swear) » alexandra_k, posted by Susan47 on November 18, 2004, at 2:22:07
Hmm. I guess the real issue is that I feel that there is something unhealthy about my attraction to these guys. And something unhealthy about how I am not interested in my peers.
I have been involved with married guys in the past. No more. No more of that guilt. I promised myself that. It is not really that they are 'unobtainable' (there wouldn't be so much of a problem if we didn't get involved), it is just that we shouldn't get involved.
My current one (sorry, my recently ended one) was a bit different in that respect. He is not discrete, though, and discrete is important to me.
But it isn't even that there is a strong emotional attachment or anything like that. It is just about sex, pure and simple. But sometimes I do feel like an object. Sometimes I don't mind that, but other times I do. And what I have realised is that I don't want to feel like that anymore. It is not worth it to me.
But I think I do need to work on my relationship issues at some point...
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