Posted by sunny10 on November 5, 2004, at 12:42:56
In reply to Re: 1st date tomorow, but BIG problem...plz HELP!!, posted by becksA on November 5, 2004, at 12:28:50
COme on- you've gotta go with CBT on this one. You know deep down that you are scared- your depression is only letting you see what could possible go wrong, and rejecting the possible suggestions.
I admit that it is a temporary suggestion, I am not belittling your response. But if you can just "make" yourself go through with this one date- ignore the naysayers in your brain- we can come up with another way to get through this by date number 2.
And free yourself up, too. For all you know you'll find out some of your date's dirt and can blushingly describe this one without "losing face".
Please let me live vicariously thru you just on this one and just go! First dates are so exciting! I am past that (too old, sigh), but so excited for YOU!
-sunny10
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