Posted by saw on November 4, 2004, at 8:26:49
In reply to Turning a cold shoulder, posted by AdaGrace on November 4, 2004, at 7:56:43
It took a lot of courage to recognize that you need to do these things for yourself and your husband. Even if your heart is "out of order", just by easing up on yourself and your husband, I would imagine that life at home will become a little easier and that you may be able to regain a friendship with your husband. That could be the very first step before further forging ahead. You show continual strength in your ability to try and move past the "other one". Perhaps you haven't moved past as fast as you would like, but you are trying. I am so pleased that you are finding you would like to try and open up to your husband. You need as many support systems as possible, and having his friendship is a good place to start.
I am very inspired by your wanting to work on these things. You will be doing it as much for yourself as for your husband.
Congratulations, AdaGrace, for showing that you can rise above the dismal dark places time and time again.
Sabrina
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