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52 yo Widower, whats worse being alone or dating

Posted by bethesdabob on October 29, 2004, at 17:47:48

Bipolar/Epileptic wife of 20 years died of seizure disorder last December, when she passed the Gates of Heaven opened to let her in and the Gates of Hell opened to let me out.

Grieved for months, the last few years wife was pretty bizarre, relationship sucked, she was in lots of pain, felt real skin hunger, met a lady 10 years younger and started seeing her. She's a divorced mother of 10 and 12 year old girls, girls stay with father in summer 1000 miles away, upon girls return she became mother again and our time together drastically decreased.

I still really like her and would love to see her but her time is limited, joined Match hoping to meet some new friends, so far have met nothing but gum chewing floozies.

Is a widower of my age with two teenaged sons at home not undesirable merchandise with baggage, any tips on how to set my sights?


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