Posted by ron1953 on September 28, 2004, at 22:28:13
In reply to Well Great....Now I Can't Have Sex and Enjoy It, posted by AdaGrace on September 27, 2004, at 11:13:45
Ada:
I've been through it so many times I've lost count. It may sound simple and trite but please try to be patient. Like the other side-effects, it'll probably lessen with time. I think you might agree that getting upset about it will only make it worse (tension and sex don't go well together, meds or not). When I was going through what you're going through, I learned to stop concentrating on orgasm as a goal and learned a lot about the joy of lovemaking, orgasm or not. Sure, I would have preferred to climax but I found a great deal of satisfaction anyway. This way, I didn't allow my sex life with my ex to just go down the tubes. Would that have been fair to her? Without all of the self-imposed tension, we were OK. In time, the ability to climax returned - it took me a little longer but my ex didn't mind that one bit.
Ron
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