Posted by annesand on September 22, 2004, at 16:03:34
Sorry, I posted this before in response to the Welcome, but it's really a new thread.
I'm 42 and still can't think clearly about romantic relationships, depressed or not. I don't know how people decide they are right or wrong for each other. How do you know what kinds of incompatibilities you can work with, and which ones you need to just walk away from? Isn't there a definitive list I could check somewhere? My habit is to get in too deep too fast, and say I love you right away, and decide the kinks are worth working out, and by then I have no objectivity and I'm lost...
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thread:393760
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