Posted by happyflower123 on November 14, 2014, at 22:46:42
In reply to Re: Termintation, new therapist, old babble threads... » happyflower123, posted by Twinleaf on November 12, 2014, at 23:19:42
Well I certainly remember you too, Twinleaf!
Finding a good T sure makes a difference. I think it takes a few months to even know if they are good for you. Sometimes you know right away.
A couple of months ago I tried out a new T and told her (along with a letter from my T) that I wanted no personal disclosure (this is how the abuse began with the abusive T I first had ) until I felt I could trust them. Well she told me on the 2nd appointment that she had 3 clients that went into the hospital that weekend and she coped with the stress of that by drinking wine. I later found out that she has a blog with so much personal information about herself, including a conversation of what she had with a client during therapy. Plus this is someone who trains other T's! I couldn't believe it, she hasn't even been a T for 5 years. How could a college hire someone so inexperienced. gah! It's scary out there in the T world.
So I hope this one works out. I've only had 2 appointments so far.
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