Posted by Dinah on January 13, 2013, at 14:33:37
In reply to Re: Attachment to therapist, posted by tetrix on January 4, 2013, at 1:22:57
I don't think it's the childlike attachment that is helpful so much as the ability to naturally outgrow the childlike attachment.
Too many of us had no chance have a childlike attachment with a healthy outcome when we *were* children. We spend our lives either attempting to attach ourselves inappropriately or fighting against any sort of attachment. We bring unnecessary stresses into our lives by unhealthy choices. We end up multiplying any genetic vulnerabilities we have.
It's not something that everybody needs. But for those who do need it, and who manage to find a therapeutic relationship (or other appropriate relationship) where we are able to be safe and go through the process naturally, it can be very helpful.
I guess for those who have no such need, it can be difficult to understand. And for those who do have a need, but have been unable to find a therapist who has the skill and patience to go through the process, it can be downright painful.
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