Posted by Willful on July 27, 2012, at 22:43:41
In reply to Wanting to terminate, again, posted by Tabitha on July 27, 2012, at 11:54:54
Her keeping the money is just wrong. First of all, it's coercive, since you've talked about terminating, apparently against her wishes. Your decision to terminate is not her call-- keeping the money holds you hostage until the failure to reimburse you is paid off. She ought to know it's not her money.
What's worse, she has no way of knowing that you don't need extra funds now, since you're having medical problems. How does she know what unexpected expenses you might have?
That alone is enough to suggest she's very confused about her role, at the moment.
The advice about the diamond is also so off-base. I would hope she would have some idea of what your beliefs are and respect them. Not to mention that there's no scientific evidence to indicate any role for chakras or whatever in cancer. That makes me wonder what other possibly destructive unscientific advice she might give you.
It might seem relatively harmless whether you wear the rings-- but first of all, they ahve meaning to you-- and your husband-- and taking them off would be a sad thing. But beyond that, she should know that you don't believe in this sort of pseudoscience-- and have the good sense to keep such advice to herself. If you were undertaking fraudulent treatments, etc, it might be her responsibility to speak out-- but since there's not one iota of evidence that she's got a point, and her ideas are not only unwelcome, but wrong-- it seems truly another confusion about boundaries.
As far as ending with her, I dont know. But she needs to give, you the money asap, and look into what could possibly have made her imagine that it was okay for her to essentially manipulate you-- and plan and simple, take what belongs to you.
I don't mean to be harsh, but I am really taken aback by both items--
Emsam.
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