Posted by Daisym on October 17, 2011, at 1:15:20
In reply to Re: How would you feel? » pegasus, posted by annierose on October 16, 2011, at 18:25:12
and she promised me she wouldn't).
However ... my sister-in-law texted me this morning telling me "she loved your t. thinks she is really nice and made an appointment to see her again. wants to go 2 - 3x a week." It was more than I needed to know. I replied, "Good to know. T is very kind and genuine. I knew she would like her."
NO- NO - NO!
I absolutely wouldn't be able to stand this. 2 or 3x a week? Too many chances to run into her and too much intimacy with MY therapist. It would make me nuts.
But - if you do both see her, there is no way I could agree to your therapist's request. I'd want to know what she thought, whether she was lying down or sitting up, etc. I don't think it is realistic for your therapist to think that the two of you wouldn't at least compare notes about her outfits! But I sometimes think therapists are just not that tuned in to how much their clients want to talk about them.
Good luck with this. It would be hard for me to focus on anything else for awhile.
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