Posted by Dinah on April 22, 2011, at 7:36:29
In reply to Re: Pdoc reduced my sessions :-( » Dinah, posted by Deneb on April 20, 2011, at 18:22:51
> I really don't want a T who's not pdoc. It's just not the same.
I get that. I always say I could find another therapist, perhaps even one I liked - if I looked long enough. But I can't find another therapist/mommy. It's like baby ducks. The one you imprint on is your therapist/mommy. No one else can be that.
It doesn't mean that if I needed therapy I wouldn't try to find a decent therapist. So, if you don't need it, it's not worth it. But if you ever do, maybe you could find a therapist/teacher or a therapist/sister or therapist/brother. It won't be your therapist, but a good therapist can be helpful anyway.
I think I'll probably write about my therapist soon. I saw him Wednesday to talk about the letter from the pdoc I was thinking of seeing, and between us we decided that she wasn't a good fit for me. He said a bit more about what he was thinking with me. I'm pondering it a bit. I actually see him again today to follow up on it a bit. He hasn't changed the meat of what he said, but he's expanding on his thoughts behind it. He must have given it some thought, because he's saying it much less offensively.
In the month I've been gone, so much has changed with him. It felt as if I'd been gone a year.
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