Posted by Anemone on November 5, 2010, at 16:37:21
In reply to Re: Confused about what this means! Worried! Panicky!, posted by Willful on November 4, 2010, at 23:55:49
Hi Willful, Dinah, and Sassyfrancesca,
Thanks Willful so much for helping me think this through, especially thanks for understanding about me not meaning any harm with the hearts thing.
Thanks Dinah, for understanding the anxiety, I feel so supported!
Thanks Sassyfrancesca for your welcome, and excellent "keep-it-simple" strategy!
I already feel tons better because you guys are so great! I am not worried anymore!
I didn't tell her in advance that I would be sending her a cheque, (I wanted to surprise her about what a good, responsible patient I am), and I sent it in an envelope that is square (not rectangle, not in the shape of a cheque), and I drew hearts on it with pencil crayons....so perhaps she didn't realize it was a cheque, and thought I was sending a love letter?!
I'll have to ask her when I see her in 10 days...
I was going to draw a sexy muscle man on the envelope, and pretend it was sent to her by a handsome hot guy...but chickened out at the last minute.
I feel SOO much better now that you guys helped me realize it takes more effort to return my envelope via "return to sender".
I draw hearts (and sometimes angels, cats, chickens...depending on the month) on every cheque that I give her, though.. this is just the way I am. She never complained or said anything yet.
My history: I have been seeing her for about 2 years. I loooove her, but have a hard time saying it to her face!
poster:Anemone
thread:968426
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