Posted by widget on August 25, 2010, at 13:43:12
In reply to Re: Deja Vu with therapist » widget, posted by Dinah on August 25, 2010, at 12:37:14
Dear Dinah, I totally agree that I am a client and not a family member. This did become glaringly clear when he went on vacation to see his daughters. I hate to say it but I was very jealous and annoyed. Oh, well, that's just a feeling and it popped up all by itself. But, he is in full control of the therapy situation. I know nothing more can happen between us. And, sometimes, I have a moment of clarity and think "hey, I like my husband better." There are ways we get along that I do not think would happen with the doctor! This is my problem to work on not his. But, I am going to ask him about the difference between uncondiitonal love vs. unconditional regard. Thanks! Widget
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