Posted by deerock on July 1, 2010, at 10:20:38
In reply to Re: blow out session with my T yesterday, posted by Dinah on July 1, 2010, at 10:10:10
she is an analyst dinah. thanks for your input. i agree, it seems like she doesnt want to deal with the anger. the T that i had a consult with told me he would talk to her.
he said that if she means dont get angry with me and only be nice because she cant use the anger in a therapeutic way then she is not the right match for me.i can have a conversation with her regarding using my anger in a helpful way but in some ways it feels like that should go unstated. thats her job. thats what she is being paid to do.
we'll see. she did say several times how committed she is to working with me and how willing but it felt like there is a condition. either be nice or waste your own time. and im not exactly going to her so i can pay someone to beat up on them verbally. i have friends for that. just joking. but seriously. it feels like im getting blamed for something that im there to try to resolve. and its not getting resolved. so therefore i need to stop doing it? that makes no sense what so ever.
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