Posted by alchemy on May 14, 2010, at 21:07:05
I'm not talking about a drug-induced side effect. There has never been a "loss". I know it is common in females. I am female & am not in a relationship. I mostly shy away from them because of this.
I want to have fantasies, when I try it doesn't work. I can't induce an orgasm with vibrators, etc. I want to know what at orgasm feels like. I wonder how it would be to see someone and want to have sex with them.
I don't want to feel so out of line with men and society. I just read something from one female psychologist that sexual desire is as normal as the hunger to eat. She said there is something wrong if this desire is missing. I do realize that is a bit of an extreme statement.
When I have had sex, there is some mild pleasure. While there is the "fast movement' and strange positions I mostly think how weird this is and when is it going to be over. But at those times I have continued to have sex in hopes that it would grow on me and I would feel more comfortable.
Even people on this board complain that their sexual desire is gone. People go off meds because of it. I want to know what it is like to have it.
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