Posted by MysticKangaroo on January 20, 2010, at 0:47:17
In reply to Angry and Hurt at T, Please give me advice, posted by Verloren on January 19, 2010, at 22:37:02
Hey V.
What a nasty roller coaster you are on. No wonder you feel sick.
I think you know what you need to do with regard to advice. Concetrate on your prog where you are. Deal with waht you can where you are. Your T will wait.
Your T. Yes she/he is still your T. Sounds to me like she/he is still getting to know you... checking out the best way of supporting you with where your life is at. T's are human. They need to learn how best to support us. They are not born pre programmed with the best way of responding in all situations. Contrary to what some people think (and I don't mean you) T's are not mind readers. My advice is wait til you are both in the same room and then talk about it.
Phone conversations are not the same as face to face. My T stuffed up monumentally on the phone one day. When we talked face to face she apologised and said that if she had seen my body language there was no way she would have said what she did.
Hang in there. One day at a time is all you have to manage and you don't have to do this on your own. Babble is here. There is a community of people who will support you.
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