Posted by Verloren on December 23, 2009, at 12:09:12
In reply to I don't understand (may be triggering), posted by Helana on December 23, 2009, at 11:48:40
Helana,
I am so sorry you're struggling with this. It seems so frustrating when our Ts have so much power over us and they don't seem to grasp that it can literally destroy us to feel like we're shunned in any way by them.
I wish she didn't make you feel that way. I do wonder if you're mentioning self harm in your messages to her and she still does not respond. I do know that when a person is experiencing a crisis that may involve SI, the T has a legal obligation to respond and get help. So maybe she's not aware of the seriousness because of the previous social-seeming calls. But if you've expressly told her you are in SI crisis situations and she downplays it, you might ask her what does she intend to do to help keep up her end of the contract.
Please keep me updated!
-Verloren
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