Posted by obsidian on December 18, 2009, at 21:57:21
In reply to 'we'll never know why your mother,,,', posted by rnny on December 14, 2009, at 22:56:34
I would think that an understanding of what was going on with your mother might offer you a clear picture of who you were in the situation and what you were struggling with.
It can change things...to think of one's mother as a relatively "normal" individual vs. someone who is "ill" and perhaps has seriously impaired judgment.
I think it's understandable to explore the whys of the situation, and to try and make sense of what may have been terribly chaotic.
I think that would have bothered me quite a bit too.
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