Posted by onceupon on September 30, 2009, at 22:53:59
In reply to Desperate and Angry, posted by FindingMyDesire on September 29, 2009, at 0:05:05
Hi FMD,
I haven't been following babble too closely, so I'm not sure as to the details of your story. Just wanted to say that this:
"Am I REALLY still going through this cycle with her????????????? After 3 years?????????????"
resonates to my core. It's so *freaking* hard! A wise babbler (can't remember who, sorry!) told me when I was feeling caught up in a vicious cycle of self-judgment (specifically about my attachment to my therapist) that she had experienced something similar, and that the angst went way, way down when she was able to allow the feeling and bar the judgment. Soooo totally easier said than done, but I still think back on that and wonder about how I can allow myself my feelings without judging them so harshly. Haven't come up with an answer yet :) but just wanted to put it out there.
Hope you're taking good care.
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