Posted by Daisym on September 29, 2009, at 0:27:05
In reply to Desperate and Angry, posted by FindingMyDesire on September 29, 2009, at 0:05:05
Abandonment issues are so, so painful. These old wounds show themselves as "go away, don't leave me!"
Knowing you are cycling doesn't always help you stop. But trying to identify just what exactly is driving you to the extreme can be useful. And the three year mark isn't all that significant. What is more important is where you are in the therapy and what you are working on. The triggers are likely those things - which drives the need and the scary feelings of never getting them met.
I do sympathize. I hope you can get the words out tomorrow.
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