Posted by Dinah on September 15, 2009, at 8:29:01
In reply to Re: Scared, alone, confused, lost... I NEED T!!!!!, posted by peddidle on September 14, 2009, at 20:51:50
You do. And it sucks, but she seems firm on not seeing you, from what you said of her email. I don't understand why they don't understand, but sometimes they don't.
No matter how you feel, and no matter what you do, you can't change the reality of her decision. I hate that, but it's true. You've done your best.
So.... What can be done to change the reality of how you feel?
Time will ease the worst of the pain. If you hold on, it will feel absolutely horrible for a while, but it will ease. No one was more attached to their therapist than I was, but when it looked as if I had lost him, the pain did ease to bearable after a while. Distraction helps a lot. What do you have going on that you can focus on?
And as little as you want to see anyone else, seeing someone else can be a good distraction too. You don't have to see them forever. You can even interview a few. For right now, maybe you can see it as something to ease the pain now?
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