Posted by onceupon on September 2, 2009, at 22:22:36
In reply to Re: I suppose I'm being silly » annierose, posted by Dinah on September 2, 2009, at 19:21:24
"Do you think he's *my* therapist with those people? Is he the same as he is with me? How could he be? Does he smile the same smile? Does he say "I know" as softly and with such humor and understanding?"
No, I don't think so. I don't think he could be *your* therapist with anyone else, because who he is as *your* therapist is defined by your relationship, not just him as a therapist. Does that make sense?
Not that I don't understand your distress. It's so much easier to feel reasonable about other people's concerns!
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