Posted by Dinah on July 25, 2009, at 8:41:13
In reply to Growing up... Dinah, other 'veterans'?, posted by workinprogress on July 24, 2009, at 0:59:03
I totally understand the fear.
So much so that I'm too scared to think about the topic.
I will say that sometimes it seems that will I or nill I, I'm growing against my will. I hate that. It scares me, and if I could stop it I would.
But when my life is unstable or something awful happens, he's the first person I think to call, even if I know he won't call back promptly (or at all if I don't specifically ask him to). Then my images flicker to crawling up on his lap and curling up like a tiny kitten. And I tend to cling and start at his slightest move.
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