Posted by antigua3 on July 19, 2009, at 11:15:06
In reply to Re: **trigger?** talking about fantasies in T » sunnydays, posted by sunnydays on July 18, 2009, at 17:22:50
I've had trouble with this lately with my pdoc. I had to tell him about a flashback I was so worried that he would think "worse" of me, although I can't imagine how he could think any worse of me after all the negative, horrible stuff I've thrown his way!
But this time was different, and he kept saying, "Why would I think any differently of you?" again and again, and after I told him, he promised he didn't feel differently. I'm not sure I believe him, but that's about me and not him.
So, I understand how you feel. It comes from within us, though, that shameful feeling and we have to let it out, and often when we do, the shame loses its strength.
Sounds like you were very brave.
antigua
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