Posted by Daisym on July 8, 2009, at 18:44:17
In reply to Re: The message she left, posted by TherapyGirl on July 8, 2009, at 16:46:09
She really does sound like she is trying to leave the ball completely in your court and is refusing to see how deflated that damn ball is!
How about this - take a month off and see how that feels. If you can begin to let go of her, of the past and of the current angst, then maybe go see her to say good-bye. That way you are protecting yourself without making any final decisions one way or another about seeing her.
I know it must hurt so much. Every interaction steals a bit more from the stock-pile of the good relationship. I'd want to stop seeing her and live in my memories too.
Be gentle with yourself.
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