Posted by Dinah on July 8, 2009, at 8:16:25
In reply to Just saying Hi, posted by LadyBug on July 7, 2009, at 0:19:47
How are you managing with the surgery? Is your daughter able to help you? I hope that, therapist or no therapist, you feel able to come to babble for support. I know it's not the same, but it's something.
Would she not return an email if you sent one? although I realize that it might be easier to have no contact at all than to have some contact. When my therapist was gone he told me to feel free to contact him, but I found that writing to him and waiting for a reply, or hearing from him even, just stirred up more feelings that had been quiet until then.
Your and therapygirl's situations have been a major focus of my therapy the last couple of sessions. I usually manage to put the realities of the situation out of my mind. But he is going to hurt me some day. And I feel really stupid because I'm paying him all this time to, in the end, be hurt. And have our entire relationship end as if it never was. I told him I'm jealous of his nieces, because he would always be in touch with them, no matter what he did professionally. He said that maybe we could arrange visitation if he ever does stop seeing me. I know he wants to want that. But it never quite works out that way.
I miss you.
poster:Dinah
thread:905395
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