Posted by sassyfrancesca on May 4, 2009, at 12:18:29
In reply to grieving and been wanting to call T, posted by sunnydays on May 2, 2009, at 20:51:13
I would call your t; that is what he/she is there for, right? Support......
Feelings are feelings....calling them by other names (transference, etc) isn't necessary. Feelings just are.....feelings. No need to twist yourself in knots, sweetie.
My mother was very abusive; I had to realize she could never be what I wanted, so I processed the garbage, and made my friends my family.
As humans, we all have needs and wants, and when they aren't fulfilled we suffer. But..there are ways to get our needs met by other people.
Hugs n Love, Sassy
P.S. "Comfort and reassurance....." You have us, but you also have a t for that. Call him! Suffering in silence isn't good.
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