Posted by garnet71 on April 28, 2009, at 21:06:49
In reply to neivity and intelligence, posted by am3ma on April 28, 2009, at 20:08:45
Oh, i forgot to mention-if you often find yourself going around complaining to friends, family about things that happened to you (as a result of being naive), or show you are upset about your experiences in being a victim or hurt, that would indicate that perpetual victimization concept I explained.
On the other hand, if you don't realize what happened until others point it out to you, show you how you were naive, you could have an unconscious fear of being judged or not liked, so your mind overlooks important things--things you should have known better--to protect you from emotional injury.
Both can be classified as self-defeating behavior.
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