Posted by raisinb on April 23, 2009, at 16:56:20
In reply to Pdoc says I am wasting my energy, posted by Deneb on April 22, 2009, at 0:02:17
Well, he might not give in. But I don't think talking about your feelings and trying to understand what they mean to you is a waste of time. As a matter of fact, your feelings are at the heart of your emotional life right now. They are important, and you need to discuss them in therapy.
I don't think the important question really is whether Dr. Bob will or won't have dinner with you. I know it feels like that now, but in ten years, I doubt whether or not you had the "date" will matter. I think the important thing is that you work on these feelings and use them to get to a new, transformational place in your own life. That is what will matter in the long term.
Take care, and I wish you peace.
(((Deneb)))
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