Posted by Dinah on April 19, 2009, at 15:56:14
In reply to disconnected session, posted by sunnydays on April 17, 2009, at 19:59:21
From all I know of your time together, he's acted as if you were special to him. I think they have a hard time saying that. It probably breaks some rule they were taught.
It sounds like he's not expressing that caring so well right now. I hate when that happens.
My therapist says he *wants* me to call, just to feel connected. But like yours, mine isn't always so good on the phone. In fact, mine is almost never good on the phone. So calling doesn't always leave me feeling more connected, even if we both try.
So... hard to say.
Do you have anything that reminds you of him? A taped message? A very positive memory? Something you can keep hold of?
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