Posted by wittgensteinz on February 14, 2009, at 5:34:52
In reply to Re: My T says he deserves a little humilation » wittgensteinz, posted by SlugSlimersSoSlided on February 13, 2009, at 18:17:30
I think the desire to be special, to be loved is very strong (innate?) - of course you were vulnerable in your relationship with that man and it's not your fault. It wouldn't have been your fault had you asked him to say those things even or if you'd done your very best to encourage him (please note, I'm not saying you did this) - it's his responsibility to keep boundaries and be professional. You did nothing wrong. Hopefully in time you will believe it and internalise it.
Witti
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