Posted by HappyChaiTea on February 13, 2009, at 18:27:20
In reply to Re: My T says he deserves a little humilation/SSSS, posted by rskontos on February 13, 2009, at 16:13:52
Hi Rk,
Sometimes YOU sound SO much like my T. lol She almost said exactly what you did, that it is hard to let go the pain he caused me maybe because I am blaming myself for what happened. Plus I got so many warning from here and from many, but I didn't listen to anyone, especially to my own gut feeling.
She talks so much about re-writing my inner dialogue with so many things.
When I read your response this is what comes up from my past, something we talked about in my last session.
Somewhere during my growing up, I saw my mom for what she was, and didn't take on the blame for me getting abused. But with my old T, I am holding on to some of the blame. Did ya see the lightbulb going on? lol
poster:HappyChaiTea
thread:879908
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