Posted by sunnydays on January 31, 2009, at 13:53:09
In reply to Re: Gameplaying, posted by Looney Tunes on January 31, 2009, at 13:32:12
I have called many times just because I wanted to feel closer to my T or because I wanted to let him know something or follow up on a topic we had been talking about in session. I just have always said please call me or don't call me. I mean it when I say don't call me (although I still always wish he would call me anyway), but I say it so that I won't have to wait around anxiously hoping the phone will ring any second if it's not an emergency. And so that he doesn't have to waste his time calling me if I really feel I don't need him to call me, I just want him to know something. He's fine with this, as I only do it occasionally, and understands that I do it as a way to feel connected and to feel like someone knows what's going on with me.
sunnydays
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