Posted by muffled on December 23, 2008, at 10:20:52
In reply to Re: Misunderstanding the jibberish, posted by seldomseen on December 23, 2008, at 7:52:01
I wondered if the gibberish meant something but I didn't try and figger it cuz I suspected it wasn't complimentary.
I understand that blocks are hurtful.
I understand that there is much pain.
I even understand lashing out in our pain.
BUT, despite the fact I feel for others in theor pain, I DO NOT agree with this place as a place to post things that are likely to trigger and cause pain to others.
Once the code is decoded (and I suggest to those who haven't to not do so, I only did 4 words then stopped...) it becomes obvious that it is a pain thing, and not appropriate here.
I am slowly starting to understand some of the bigger picture in treying to operate and run a place such as this.
I really feel badly for HF, she is in a incredibly hard place in therapy. But it seems she has an excellent T, and wonderful children. So she has good things and I am so thankful for that. I really wish HF could be here, and I pray she will come back when she feels more stable.
I hope she understands that there are many, if not all of us here rooting for her and wishing her well, even if she can't understand that right now.
So many times Bob has said 'this is not necc the place...', ugh, I s'pose I have to agree. Anger I think is likely very very triggering to many of us and causes huge disruptions and more hurt on this board and on admin. It doesn't bring us together in support. It drives us apart in our fear and confusion. It makes this place feel unsafe.
Ultimately, I hope, hope, hope, that this flare up does not drive us babblers further apart, but brings us together, somehow.
I think we need to trust that we all have good intentions.
I think we need to trust that HF T and other supports in her life will help her.
Maybe we can pray to our asst higher powers for her.
I don't know what else we can do.
Other than promote peace here....
I hope we can.....
Can we?
M
poster:muffled
thread:870259
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