Posted by OneGoodRoad on December 2, 2008, at 19:32:04
This is my first time posting here. I have been reading the messages for awhile, but was never motivated to write until now.
I have been seeing my current T for about 8 years. In the last few years, my feelings of love (= transference) have really grown intense. I cannot stop thinking about her. It feels like an obsession. I recently told her that I googled her and she said that it was an invasion of her privacy and she wanted to know all the things that I found out about her. So I told her.
The reality is that I want to know more info about her even still. At the same time, I feel terrible... and am afraid that she will be angry with me. On one hand she wants complete honesty and on the other I think it ticks her off that I have done this.
Do I continue to be honest with her?
Thanks.
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