Posted by rskontos on December 2, 2008, at 11:07:16
In reply to Re: Dealing with a blank slate T? » Recently, posted by lucie lu on December 1, 2008, at 21:41:45
Recently,
I was too much a beginner to ask either plus I was in a crisis mode when I went to my now T who is also a p-doc. Luckily for me, my Dr. S as I call him is one of those T's that seems to just what a person needs. I guess I am one of those that needed a blank slate T to a certain extent. Outside of that one time he has never given me more than I needed in personal information. I get what I need when I need it even when I ask. I don't know where he lives, I do happen to know he is married but I asked. Again I know stuff because it just comes up naturally. Again, if I ask he answers but only enough for me to know.
He seems to get how much I need. Thank god because if he freaked me out I don't I would go to another t.
But you need to ask of yours what you need, and if you don't get it push. Because fit is important because trust will only come if you are comfortable. And even then it comes slowly.
rsk
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