Posted by JayMac on November 29, 2008, at 16:51:59
In reply to Re: Strategic Holidays, posted by Phillipa on November 29, 2008, at 14:26:56
It's seems like no matter who you are, everyone struggles with some degree of family-related issues. I think some people have more to deal with than others.
What do I do? Well....I'm trying to accept people as they are and control how I react. In my mind, I usually ignore the evident issues. But I don't know how helpful that is. I'm learning to see the dysfunction, taking notice of how I want to react, and then do what I need to do to get through. Sometimes I take a moment to go to the bathroom for an extra long time! It's helpful! Sometimes I leave the room. Sometimes I distract myself with helping the cook or playing with any children. It depends on what works for you.
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