Posted by lucie lu on November 23, 2008, at 1:37:59
In reply to Feeling at peace again, posted by Wittgensteinz on November 22, 2008, at 20:04:15
Hi Witti,What an evocative and detailed your picture-story is of this session! And happy birthday, by the way. As always, since the rupture, I am struck by how much you are still trying to mend it and at least of late, your T is trying hard to meet you. I agree with Dinah, the fretting about your coat may be his means to convey to you how much he does care about you and about what happens to you. Metaphorically, he knows he is unable to do anything about the storm, but he wants to make sure you are prepared to face the elements. I think that is lovely and caring.
I hope that you two can continue on the healing path. An important part of loving and caring is to learn to tolerate and repair even major ruptures. And you know what - I would even guess that he may be learning something from you about rupture repair. There are few skills more important for people who are important to one another.
Take care,
Lucie
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