Posted by lucie lu on November 20, 2008, at 17:10:40
In reply to Have I outgrown my T?, posted by vwoolf on November 19, 2008, at 13:54:39
Are you going through trauma stuff with your T? I remember a point where I wanted to just gallop through at my own (high) speed, and my T was exerting superhuman efforts to slow me down. I chafed when he did that, sometimes raged at him for Not Letting Me Talk. One time, I really wanted to talk about Important Stuff and he went into this very unusual schtick for him about Jewish men and their mothers (I am none of the above but I suppose for him it was autobiographical). I was so mad, I called him while I was on my way home and yelled at him. Much later on, he told me he was just trying not to let me get ahead of myself because he worried that I would hurt myself by plunging in too far, too fast. Maybe he was right, I don't know. But I remember feeling something similar to what you are describing. We got past it. He's not usually like that, though, it was just at that time.
poster:lucie lu
thread:864014
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20081120/msgs/864269.html